首先是态度问题，其次是压力太小了，有家人可以依靠，他就可以轻松与放心的去面对生活了，可以尝试让家里断了他的收入来源，靠自力更生那样对他帮助更大，不由自主的就会很用心去学习与接触新技术，希望能帮到你，谢谢！

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